1) Utter the words, "Honey, I think I'm good with our (1, 2, 3...) kids.
They want their grilled cheese brown, but not too brown! Cut the crust parts off and cut them into triangles please. No! Wait! Squares!!! You RUINED it!!! Make it again!
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